Monday, August 27, 2012

On Fear and Anxiety - Group Discussions (DB UTUME)

Anxiety and Courage
Group 1

On my fears
1.      When I was on holidays before coming to Kenya for my theological studies, my mother was very sick. She always wanted me to be with all the time. So when I was about to travel to Kenya, there was this fear in me that she may die if I leave. This fear caused me lots of anxieties but since I came to Kenya, the fear has gone down because she is still alive and even stronger now than before.
2.      In our province our major benefactors are from outside Africa. My fear now as a member of this province, is how the future of the province will be when the mission is handed over to the Africans in my province. So I am very much afraid of the future
3.      The death of our prime minister has raised a great fear in me. My fear is how our new prime minster will be in governing the country. I hope he will be good.
4.      Dog is my greatest enemy. I have had dogs that are very close to me but most of them end up biting me as if am there enemy. This experience of mine has made me to fear dog.  As of now hearing the barking of dogs creates a great fear in me.

COMMENTS AFTER READING THE TEXT
1.      Anxiety is not fear but it is more of getting worried. Anxiety can be very abstract while fear can be more concrete.
2.       Fear comes from known situation while anxiety comes from unknown situation.
3.      Fear and anxiety are related, fear leads to anxiety.
4.      We can know the outcome of fear but we may not know the outcome of anxiety.
5.      You may know the direction to follow in case of fear but for anxiety, you may not know where to follow. Therefore anxiety is the product of fear.
Minutes taken by: JOSEPH ORAEGBUNAM
The group members are; Augustine Koroma, John Musonda, Stephen Mutuku, Terefe Mehari, Tirfe Teka

Group 2

The group members expressed the following fears and anxieties;
·         Fear of heights after almost falling down from the wall of a steep mountain.
·         Fear of death after being choked in a narrow and overcrowded corridor of a building with no means for escape. (Near death experience)
·         Fear of over speeding vehicles after three terrible experiences (accidents) in an over speeding vehicle.
·         Fear of death after experiencing turbulence for the first time in an airplane.
·         Fear of suffocation after getting stuck in an elevator in a tall building.
·         Fear and anxiety of not being admitted to the novitiate after experiencing five companions being discontinued. Fear and anxiety of having to face the family members, friends and relatives in case of being discontinued from religious life.
Summary of the Text
Anxiety is the existential awareness of non being. Neither its source nor its objects can be identified and thus it torments its possessor.  Fear on the other hand has a definite object which can be faced, analyzed, attacked and endured. One can act upon it.  Courage and love can confront every form of fear that a person may encounter. 

Comments
The group members observed that mostly people become afraid and anxious in view of an impending evil towards which they feel inadequate or helpless to overcome. For example the unpredictability of life after death produces anxiety and fear in persons.  The group further observed that non-being is the realization of one’s own limitedness (finitude) and this is an inherent part of ourselves. Anxiety strips us of everything we affirm about ourselves and thus leaves us naked (vulnerable and helpless) hence making sport of our courage. It shows us who we truly are. It belongs to our existence and reminds us of our finitude.
MEMBERS
·         Chiemeka Utazi;  Ephraim Onwuzulu;  Oscar Simbarashe; Owour Eric (Secretary); Christopher Mukuka;       Ekugba Chikezie

Group 3

The topic today ‘Human being as a transcendental being, gave us the opportunity to reflect more about fear and anxiety. The group members shared about things/events or people they fear or still fearing. It evident that many people fear situations or conditions which they think will go against their well being. For example, somebody fearing sickness as the sickness may put his vocation at stake or can cause unexpected death. Others they have associative fear with an event that happened once in life time. A good example here is somebody received a phone call about the death of his father. He was taken by shock as it was something unbelievable. Now the person has a phobia of receiving a phone call from home or friends even though it is carrying good news rather than bad news.
Many of us in our daily life, we are anxious with new people, situation or anything that is not clear to us. As such, anxiety is the state in which a being is aware of its possible non-being. The awareness that the non-being is a part of one’s own being is the main cause of anxiety. Here comes the concept of death as we are not aware of what will follow after our death. The hiddeness of our death causes not only fear but also anxiety. Sometimes anxiety is seen in negative sense, that is, as revolt of the human spirit against non-being and a warning of the dynamism towards God. Anxiety and fear have the same ontological root but they are not the same in actuality. This is because fear has a definite object which can be faced, analyzed, attacked or endured. This is contrary to anxiety which its object is the negation of every object. As such anxiety has no object. Furthermore, anxiety is finitude experienced as one’s own finitude. This is becoming clearer that fear and anxiety are distinguished but not separated as they are immanent within each other. For example, fear of death determines the element of anxiety in every fear.
Fear and anxiety are necessary components of human being. When one discover that fear and anxiety are tormenting him/her, this causes human being to transcend from finiteness to the concept of infiniteness. One fear but he/she becomes aware that he/she is not fear itself even though one fears. The consciousness of our fear creates in us the concept of hope, which is the source of faith in the infinite, absolute being, that is God. Fear and anxiety are not necessarily negative but what matters is how we approach them daily in our life. To conclude, fear and anxiety can be source of faith hence enrichment in our search for meaning in life
Nicodemus, Henry, Martin, Abeje, Legasse

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